Thang D. Nguyen has written an interesting post and subsequent discussion in regards to Western men and Indonesian women. I’ll leave my own thoughts out of this one, but would be interested in hearing how Indonesian women feel after reading this.
Here’s an excerpt from his post:
As my friend and I sipped our coffees last Sunday afternoon at Plaza Indonesia, he asked, â€œDonâ€™t you think that many of the Indonesian women that white foreigners (buleh) go out with or marry are so unattractive?â€
â€œThey look like maids, donâ€™t theyâ€ he continued.
â€œNot necessarily so,â€ I replied.
Beauty, like many things in life, is bound by the rule of relativity. In other words, what one man considers beautiful is ugly in the eyes of another.
Being an Indonesian himself, my friendâ€™s view of a beautiful woman is that of a fair-skinned one, who has the look of a financially independent, educated, and classy lady.
Thus, in his eyes, an Indonesian woman with a dark complexion, buck teeth, and a high forehead typically found among remote mountain villagers in Java, is not beautiful.